tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8123838605050162.post5794281546754973049..comments2023-08-06T09:56:27.702-04:00Comments on oops--- i dropped my bon-bon: a poll on human nature- take twompotterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04828627152965729832noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8123838605050162.post-41141094185396429592008-10-22T00:13:00.000-04:002008-10-22T00:13:00.000-04:00He's a guy. He'll ignore you. That's why we all ne...He's a guy. He'll ignore you. That's why we all need girlfriends. They get it. Just sayin'....Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15592530066607069238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8123838605050162.post-91813514536772931212008-10-16T13:51:00.000-04:002008-10-16T13:51:00.000-04:00Dear Madam,I came across your blog completely by a...Dear Madam,<BR/><BR/>I came across your blog completely by accident. Maybe your husband only rolled over because it was 11:30 PM and was tired from a soccer game and working 13 hours and his brain couldn't function properly to formulate a valid response. Not that I know your husband or anything. That's happened to me before, is all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8123838605050162.post-14087640161769473992008-10-16T09:30:00.000-04:002008-10-16T09:30:00.000-04:00I vote worry about things when you have reason to ...I vote worry about things when you have reason to worry, not before. Your Mr. is a very logical person and this sounds illogical to me. When the doc says there's a problem, worry. He thinks you're pretty, he married you. Etc, etc... Then again, I think in general guys need less affirmation from others in life than girls... perhaps I'm wrong... not going to worry about it though. ;)Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06899818524413441067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8123838605050162.post-78674238966423322422008-10-15T22:10:00.000-04:002008-10-15T22:10:00.000-04:00I'm not going to be of too much help. I worry way,...I'm not going to be of too much help. <BR/>I worry way, WAY too much about every little thing involving Little Elvis. Bob used to respond and tell me I was being ridiculous, but sometimes he just ignores and I take that as my clue that I'm worrying over nothing.<BR/>As for the looks thing, Bob does this to me. He will say something about losing his hair (he's not) or gaining weight (same size since he graduated high school) and I know his ego just needs stroking. Sometimes I play along. Other times I ignore, but if I'm feeling particularly tooncey, then I'll tell him his ears are too big (another complaint of his) and that I saw about 100 hairs on his pillow that morning. He knows I'm poking fun and will usually stop with the fussing.Pregnantly Plumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16520084082888706200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8123838605050162.post-531109306717930002008-10-15T12:45:00.000-04:002008-10-15T12:45:00.000-04:00..........okay, not that I'm knocking you...... bu.............okay, not that I'm knocking you...... but, what is his impression? does he feel like you worry about things needlessly?<BR/><BR/>(I totally work myself up about things "needlessly" in the eyes of some...)<BR/><BR/>.......or, is it his own personal denial. obviously it's something about either your health/well-being, or health/well-being of your offspring. Is blocking it out/refusing to worry about it or even acknowledge your concerns his way of protecting himself? <BR/><BR/>in general though--I say that it is natural instinct to affirm/negate the statements of others.....Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.com